LOVE♥

[Hancho 3,902]

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Anyone has experienced? Experiencing? Ever felt that feeling towards the person? Ever been heart broken? Anyone would like to talk about it?

 

People might take this thread personal and not want to share anything which is alright but sometime it is good to talk about it and hear opinions about it. Myself, I don' think I've experienced love yet but I did have feelings for few wrong people who never felt the same way towards me and it's life, you learn a lot from it. 

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♪YOU'LL NEVER GO BACK TO THE PERSON THAT YOU WERE BEFORE♪

 

It's impossible. Believe me, I tried it myself. And while I'm on that note, it's impossible to be loved, believed or respected by everyone. People who don't even know you will pretend to know you and make judgements about you. But don't let that get to you. It's a reflection of who they are, not who YOU are.

 

It bothered me before when someone didn't see me for who I really was. I felt the need to explain myself. But not anymore. I am realising day by day that the way that people see me is out of my control. And that the way that others see me. No one walked in my shoes. So, no one has the right to tell me what path I walked or how I marred I was.

 

 

• "There is a love you cannot find back, but you will understand and let it go eventually. Then, you begin your life again. It requires deep understanding and time."

 

 

• "Sadly, so many people are setting the bar really low in terms of their personal lives. Working a job they hate, content with struggling. Settling for relationships. Life for so many is not living at all and that's the problem. You get what you allow. Watching others live life instead of living your best life and they wonder why everyone is self medicating, suppressing their pain, pretending to be happy instead of trying to cultivate a lifestyle that brings them peace."

 

 

• "Sometimes we give love to the wrong person, and we sit there and wonder, 'how could I have given love to that person? They don't even deserve it,' or 'what a waste of time.' But the thing is, you shouldn't think about it that way. You should think of the fact that you were able to give love, because if you are able to give it, that means you have it inside of you. It's the same thing with kindness, with honesty, with your ability to care about people. Don't focus on the way that people abuse that. Focus on the fact that you have it within you, and that it makes you who you are. It makes you a beautiful person, a beautiful human being"

 

 

• "A person who thinks all the time has nothing to think about except thoughts, so he/she loses touch with reality and lives in a world of illusions."

 

Edited July 31, 2018 by Hancho

[Hate 5,582]

The title is too offensive for me.

 

 

Topic closed, hid, deleted.  :rolleyes:

 

[Hancho 3,902]

The title is too offensive for me.

 

 

Topic closed, hid, deleted.  :rolleyes:

 

 

YEAH NO WONDER YOU NAMED YOURSELF "HATE" :ph34r:  -_-  -_-

[GuidoFawkes 2,361]

my friend : blah blah blah blah  i like you

me : it'll go away


~after a few days~


my friend : blah blah blah blah but i really love you!

me : don't do this to yourself
 

[splitterpoint 10,986]

Yeah I was in a relationship for 2,5 years.

I decided to break up with her, I just didn't felt the spark anymore. She is a totally different person than I am.

The breakup went relatively peacefully and we still see eachother in friend groups.

 

She was my first girlfriend and I learned a lot from that relationship. I am thankful that we met eachother. In those 2,5 years I also got to meet a lot of other people from her friend group. They got in touch with my friend group and so it led to a meetup of 25+ people. :lol:

 

I do not regret breaking up with her. I also do not regret my decision nor the relationship.

So that's nice.

[Coat 2,280]

I had 1 day girlfriend two times.

[Flirty 33]

Come on .. there is not some ._. 

[QuicKK 975]

Haven't experienced. I'd like to.

Edited April 26, 2018 by QuicKK

[Hancho 3,902]

I had 1 day girlfriend two times.

Bcuz you was mad? OHHHHHHH.

Haven't experienced. I'd like to.

Well I hope you experience it with the right person.

[Wes.Is.Just.A.Digger 1,712]

Anyone has experienced? Experiencing? Ever felt that feeling towards the person? Ever been heart broken? Anyone would like to talk about it?

 

Love makes everyone happy but the wrong people decide to ruin the definition of love and regret having feelings towards them. 

 

People might take this thread personal and not want to share anything which is alright but sometime it is good to talk about it and hear opinions about it. Myself, I don' think I've experienced love yet but I did have feelings for few wrong people who never felt the same way towards me and it's life, you learn a lot from it. 

 

          You study Psychology and I recommend you some Neuro Linguistic Programming courses (have patience and go a bit deeper to at least Practitioner level), your world will get turned upside down when yourself will discover some truths and will get a healthy reality check and a better image of yourself, but at least you will not get hurt anymore, as you will be able to gain superior capacities of understanding and generating options for yourself and resources for those around you.

Cheers!

[Coat 2,280]

Bcuz you was mad? OHHHHHHH.

Tbh, it didn't hurt me much

[slash1524 74]

I try my best not to. It's clearly a trap, and a distraction

[Hancho 3,902]

Tbh, it didn't hurt me much

Yea try spending time with that person for months every single day, you would definitely be miserable and upset, it hurts  :ph34r:

 

I try my best not to. It's clearly a trap, and a distraction

It is a distraction for sure if you're studying. Imagine catching feelings when you have exams, it would destroy you  B)

[Coat 2,280]

Yea try spending time with that person for months every single day, you would definitely be miserable and upset, it hurts  :ph34r:

Oh, I think you've experienced this. I'm so  sorry for you :'(

[Hancho 3,902]

Oh, I think you've experienced this. I'm so  sorry for you :'(

Na I didn't spend every single day with that person otherwise the feelings would've been stronger but I know people who did experienced that. 

 

#SINGLELIFEBOYS

[Coat 2,280]

Na I didn't spend every single day with that person otherwise the feelings would've been stronger but I know people who did experienced that. 

 

#SINGLELIFEBOYS

I have decided to always be single then

[Hancho 3,902]

I have decided to always be single then

I feel like by being single you can get so much stuff done in your life, spend money on yourself and nobody will bother you, so do many things as you can whilst you're still single then later on it gets difficult  :mellow:

[Coat 2,280]

I feel like by being single you can get so much stuff done in your life, spend money on yourself and nobody will bother you, so do many things as you can whilst you're still single then later on it gets difficult  :mellow:

Yeah, I use to think so sometimes. 

[QuicKK 975]

Sometimes being single is good too, you enjoy too much while you're alone, being in couples can lead so much problems (if girl's thoughts aren't the same as yours), like being in couples for couple weeks or days then break up, but it's so rare being together for long time.

[Heles 9,220]

 

 

 

 

 

Ha, i remember seeing that in the old forum topics XD

[Coat 2,280]

my friend : blah blah blah blah  i like you

 

me : it'll go away

 

 

~after a few days~

 

 

my friend : blah blah blah blah but i really love you!

 

me : don't do this to yourself

 

it's not good too. If you wanna remain single, it doesn't mean you should insult females.

[CooperO 7,956]

it's not good too. If you wanna remain single, it doesn't mean you should insult females.

If that is what females take as insult nowadays, we're far worse off than I thought.

[Coat 2,280]

If that is what females take as insult nowadays, we're far worse off than I thought.

oh

[Hancho 3,902]

Thing is, females go for bad guys who treat them bad way and then after complain "men are trash" like there are good men out there but you make a dumb chose.  :rolleyes:

[monkeyburn 13,522]