Can't stop, Won't stop

[r_DidYouKnowThat0 1,662]

There is certainly no point in talking privately if you're just going to call me names and then exit the conversation. :rolleyes:

That was not a conversation, my screenshot. That was just you sending a hate message/threat.

Edited February 19, 2015 by r_DidYouKnowThat0

[Timetoplaythegame_2 24]

There is certainly no point in talking privately if you're just going to call me names and then exit the conversation. :rolleyes:

That was not a conversation, my screenshot. That was just you sending a hate message/threat.

People like you are unbelievable, you go round provoking people, talking down to them, and the say that they call you names, it's easy to take a screenshot and it makes it look like I'm the bad one, editing tools do magic, people are not stupid, anyways, from this moment, please don't talk directly to me anymore, I'm saying it publicly, I don't want to converse with you from this point on, everyone here is witness, and so are the mods, from this moment don't talk to me anymore, on a topic or privately, you can comment on my topics, on that I have no say, but not directly to me, not even mention my name

[r_DidYouKnowThat0 1,662]

The only editing I did was underlining your name. :)

Even then, you chose to ignore it, and hoped that nobody would have noticed that it was actually you.

People are not stupid - I agree.

 

@Timetoplaythegame_2: Who made this topic again? Who complained about being attacked, when they were the ones who insulted others first? HELLO? You PM'd me a threat/ hate message.

The proof is all there. You just need to open your eyes Mr. "Im the Truth."

 

I think, for you, that it's Time to Play the Game! :D

 

But seriously, I'm the one provoking people? You need to review your posts.

Edited February 19, 2015 by r_DidYouKnowThat0

[Timetoplaythegame_2 24]

The only editing I did was underlining your name. :)

Even then, you chose to ignore it, and hoped that nobody would have noticed that it was actually you.

People are not stupid - I agree.

 

@Timetoplaythegame_2: Who made this topic again? Who complained about being attacked, when they were the ones who insulted others first?

The proof is all there. You just need to open your eyes Mr. "Im the Truth."

 

I think, for you, that it's Time to Play the Game! :D

 

But seriously, I'm the one provoking people? You need to review your posts.

Truth will prevail, goodbye

[r_DidYouKnowThat0 1,662]

I agree. Truth will prevail. :)

Have a wonderful day. And remember, keep up the respect!

[Timetoplaythegame_2 24]

For the new visitors, ignore all above, it has nothing to do with the topic, if you guys want to talk to me about anything related to the topic, send me a private message, and I will try to help, or maybe you can help me, we can help each other :)

[r_DidYouKnowThat0 1,662]

Are you sure it has nothing to do with the topic? Or is that just another lie?

Unlike you, I've got the evidence. :P

Edited February 19, 2015 by r_DidYouKnowThat0

[Timetoplaythegame_2 24]

Are you sure it has nothing to do with the topic? Or is that just another lie?

Unlike you, I've got the evidence. :P

I have told you not to talk to me anymore, this has to stop, I have had enough of you, you keep provoking, I told you I don't want to talk to you, I told you the conversation is finished, don't reply anymore, I will report you, I have asked you clearly not to talk to me, and I said bye, that's enough reason to get banned, the other day I told someone to stop talking to me, he continued, 1 second later he was banned, stop talking to me, don't ruin the topic for those who want to take it seriously, enough, don't even reply, don't type one more word to me Edited February 19, 2015 by Timetoplaythegame_2

[r_DidYouKnowThat0 1,662]

So, I can't talk about you, yet your previous post clearly involves my own posts.

Review that one post, yes?

Edited February 19, 2015 by r_DidYouKnowThat0

[Timetoplaythegame_2 24]

So, I can't talk about you, yet your previous post clearly involves my own posts.

Review that one post, yes?

You can't talk to me or about me, don't reply anymore, the space below is for the new comers

[r_DidYouKnowThat0 1,662]

Sorry, but the forum does not work that way.

You clearly said that my posts above has nothing to do with the topic.

 

You called my posts off-topic in a gist. Which is false, if you follow the trail.

[Timetoplaythegame_2 24]

Sorry, but the forum does not work that way.

You clearly said that my posts above has nothing to do with the topic.

 

You called my posts off-topic in a gist. Which is false, if you follow the trail.

I told you to stop talking to me, I have repeated it 3 times, I don't want to talk to you, put in your head, don't type to me, don't reply, one more word, this is harassment, don't talk to me

[r_DidYouKnowThat0 1,662]

Lol! If you want to withdraw like that, then so be it. Though I will be clear, and say that my posts above were definitely NOT off-topic.

Anyways!

 

I wonder who else wants to take part? :lol:

Certainly more opinions and perspectives will be interesting to discuss.

Always be respectful, and keep an open mind.

Edited February 19, 2015 by r_DidYouKnowThat0

[Timetoplaythegame_2 24]

Guys if you want to talk to me about the topic, private message me, and we can talk calmly, and I will try to help, or help each other :)

[r_DidYouKnowThat0 1,662]

Quoting a portion of the main topic post: "if you have an idea, you tell that idea to the world, don't be afraid of what people will think or say, even if it's the many people against you,"

 

I definitely agree with this part. If you have an idea, share it! However, this next part is CRUCIAL.

If you share it, you can obtain feedback from the community, the very people you play Tanki Online with.

And it's your job to use that feedback to improve your idea, for the best of the Tanki Online community.

 

Isn't that right? :)

[Timetoplaythegame_2 24]

Hello tankers, it's a good day to give it your best, have fun in the game :)

[ErikCR1 27]

I shared my rank up pic 2 weeks ago and they gave me 14 downvotes and 1 upvote  :unsure:  :ph34r:  :angry:

Here it is:

 

 

 

Edited February 19, 2015 by ErikCR1

[Timetoplaythegame_2 24]

I shared my rank up pic 2 weeks ago and they gave me 14 downvotes and 1 upvote  :unsure:  :ph34r:  :angry:

Here it is:

 

 

 

Hello, well done for your rank up, don't worry about those people, they are mean, you keep doing your thing, sharing your ideas, thoughts, and whatever else makes you feel good, you can talk to me any time, if you have any questions, or any problems, and I will do my best to help, add me to friends, on this account, and my other account, if you wish, Timetoplaythegamesan

[beaku 2,656]

What happened on this topic? :unsure:

[Timetoplaythegame_2 24]

What happened on this topic? :unsure:

Don't worry about what happened before, concentrate on now and the future, if you want to discuss anything regarding the topic you can do freely, here or you can send me a private message

[jomama_tanker 117]

 

Greek philosopher Epictetus is credited with saying “We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak.” He understood that we learn much more from listening than we do from talking.

 

Your heart is in the right place. Clearly you’re a young person who simply wishes everyone would be respectful, polite and professional at all times in all contexts. Here’s what you need to understand about the life ahead of you:

 

99.999% of the time you’re not going to change the way other people think, nor what they believe, nor how they behave. This applies to every facet of life from careers, finance, and relationships to religion, education, social etiquette and more. Naturally, it applies to conduct here on the Tanki Forum as well.

 

Don’t allow yourself to become disappointed when others do not share your point of view. And don’t attempt to force your point of you upon them with the expectation that others wil simply accept it. There’s no harm in debating different perspectives. Just don’t expect that you’re going to “win”. Discussion isn’t about winning, it’s about sharing perspectives, learning and growing.

 

Listen to what they say not how they say it.  Learn how to decipher and distill the comments. Yes, opinions may often be presented in a rude, crude and obnoxious manner by someone who lacks social etiquette, skills and tact. They may have poor grammar and spelling. Your language may not be their primary language. If you find yourself focusing on the delivery (how they say it) rather than the message (what they say), then you’re not really listening, are you? At that point you’ll find that you’re dismissive simply because you don’t like the way they speak/behave — even if they have valid points.

 

Few people cope well with difficult conversations and difficult topics. They’re defensive, dismissive and often resort to personal attacks known as argumentum ad hominem, meaning they respond by attacking a person's character rather than their argument.  If during a conversation with you someone is behaving in a rude and obnoxious manner, you can always let them know that you find it rude and discourteous. And if they continue to be rude simply choose to dismiss yourself from the conversation. Or do as I have done for many years and choose to filter out the noise and listen to the heart of their message. Sometimes, nestled between the snide remarks is some genuinely useful insight. Could they have chosen a more polite way to say it?  Perhaps.  Is their opinion any less valuable because they were rude about it?  No.  

 

Above all else never allow yourself to become a hypocrite. If you desire politeness, respect, courtesy and civility, then always make sure you are polite, respectful, courteous and civil regardless how others around you conduct themselves. The moment you allow yourself to behave in the very same manner that you claim to dislike, you’ve become a hypocrite. When you find yourself leaning toward hypocrisy, or worse if you realize you’ve dishonored your own values, own up to it, apologize and vow to yourself to do you best to uphold the values you hold so dear.

 

I wish you all the best. See you on the battlefield.

Edited February 19, 2015 by jomama_tanker

[CcC-T.i.q.R.i.S_TR 69]

My topics may look bad, but people who have their own mind understand them, and take good things from them, obviously there's people who have no mind of their own and just want to upset people, and this is why I made this topic, I don't care what people think of me, I will keep going, for myself, and for all those people who are scared, I will be their strength, they will take energy from me, and become stronger people

I know that many topics come up very often, but you also have to take into account, that people move at different rates, and of course the new players, every stage has it's problems, one topic that comes up a lot is the laser on shaft, if it was up to me, there's would be countless topics about that, but of course we have to accept this change to the game, so taking out your frustrations on other people isn't the way to go

[Timetoplaythegame_2 24]

Greek philosopher Epictetus is credited with saying “We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak.” He understood that we learn much more from listening than we do from talking.

 

Your heart is in the right place. Clearly you’re a young person who simply wishes everyone would be respectful, polite and professional at all times in all contexts. Here’s what you need to understand about the life ahead of you:

 

99.999% of the time you’re not going to change the way other people think, nor what they believe, nor how they behave. This applies to every facet of life from careers, finance, and relationships to religion, education, social etiquette and more. Naturally, it applies to conduct here on the Tanki Forum as well.

 

Don’t allow yourself to become disappointed when others do not share your point of view. And don’t attempt to force your point of you upon them with the expectation that others wil simply accept it. There’s no harm in debating different perspectives. Just don’t expect that you’re going to “win”. Discussion isn’t about winning, it’s about sharing perspectives, learning and growing.

 

Listen to what they say not how they say it.  Learn how to decipher and distill the comments. Yes, opinions may often be presented in a rude, crude and obnoxious manner by someone who lacks social etiquette, skills and tact. They may have poor grammar and spelling. Your language may not be their primary language. If you find yourself focusing on the delivery (how they say it) rather than the message (what they say), then you’re not really listening, are you? At that point you’ll find that you’re dismissive simply because you don’t like the way they speak/behave — even if they have valid points.

 

Few people cope well with difficult conversations and difficult topics. They’re defensive, dismissive and often resort to personal attacks known as argumentum ad hominem, meaning they respond by attacking a person's character rather than their argument.  If during a conversation with you someone is behaving in a rude and obnoxious manner, you can always let them know that you find it rude and discourteous. And if they continue to be rude simply choose to dismiss yourself from the conversation. Or do as I have done for many years and choose to filter out the noise and listen to the heart of their message. Sometimes, nestled between the snide remarks is some genuinely useful insight. Could they have chosen a more polite way to say it?  Perhaps.  Is their opinion any less valuable because they were rude about it?  No.  

 

Above all else never allow yourself to become a hypocrite. If you desire politeness, respect, courtesy and civility, then always make sure you are polite, respectful, courteous and civil regardless how others around you conduct themselves. The moment you allow yourself to behave in the very same manner that you claim to dislike, you’ve become a hypocrite. When you find yourself leaning toward hypocrisy, or worse if you realize you’ve dishonored your own values, own up to it, apologize and vow to yourself to do you best to uphold the values you hold so dear.

 

I wish you all the best. See you on the battlefield.

I always speak politely, and ask people to do the same with me, but some people provoke, they talk in a rude manner, and this isn't right, and that's when the moderators should come in, and remove the comments and tell that person to make their point with educated phrasing, but that doesn't happen, so arguments begin, and good people end up saying things they don't want to say, or speak in a way they wouldn't normally speak, things need to change and will change

[DarkOperative 5,580]

another warn note

OP, you are kindly requested to please refrain from using provocative material in your posts. If you find someone giving negative feedback towards you, then just look into the matter and read & study the matter. Trying to fix it is 100 times better than trying to prove it wrong.

[liverpoolaum 811]

Hello everyone, I decided to make this topic because as we all know there's people out there who try to bring other people down, I read through the topics at times, people post an idea, and someone is ready to try and bring that person down, typing things such as: "bad idea, noob, downvote" and many more negative things, well I want to tell you guys, if you have an idea, you tell that idea to the world, don't be afraid of what people will think or say, even if it's many people against you, if you back down and keep quiet, the negative people will get stronger, you have to show that you're not afraid, and that you will speak up, no matter what they do, so what if they all call you noob, or other names, remember what your real name is

hmm.. a nice topic encouraging 1 for beginners