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[werty8763 1,483]

I can't see her profile pic becuz of my f**king slow PC (it lags too much!) :angry:

Does lag have anything to do with a picture??

[1stsuperwhitedragon 408]

Does lag have anything to do with a picture??

when it comes to loading pics, then yes -_-

[werty8763 1,483]

when it comes to loading pics, then yes -_-

Did you see the picture??

[jimboe2 35]

She's a cutie pie.

You need to find out if she is a fun girl. ;) 

I'm sure you two would make a nice couple. :)

Did you ask her out yet?

Or are you still feeling her out?

[werty8763 1,483]

She's a cutie pie.

You need to find out if she is a fun girl. ;)

I'm sure you two would make a nice couple. :)

Did you ask her out yet?

Or are you still feeling her out?

I'm still feeling her out...... but I think she likes me....... she sat next to me again...... :) Edited May 3, 2015 by werty8763

[werty8763 1,483]

Guys take a look.... https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=805773296173034&set=a.43925 .....and tell me if she's pretty or not..... ;)

[werty8763 1,483]

Guys..... don't just look at her and then go..... :(

 

tell me if she's pretty or not...... ;)

 

Thanks. :)

[Longcat970 119]

You know, this is pretty much how it went with me the last time. Don't overdo the researching, or you'll turn into a full-blown stalker. Big fail points if she finds out you're using the nets/her friends to spy on her. If you want to know more about her, conversations are the #1 time proven way to do it--shows confidence and warms up those nervous episodes over time.

 

P.S. Asking others if she's pretty or not is one guaranteed way to screw up your mood if you don't like the response.

[werty8763 1,483]

You know, this is pretty much how it went with me the last time. Don't overdo the researching, or you'll turn into a full-blown stalker. Big fail points if she finds out you're using the nets/her friends to spy on her. If you want to know more about her, conversations are the #1 time proven way to do it--shows confidence and warms up those nervous episodes over time.

 

P.S. Asking others if she's pretty or not is one guaranteed way to screw up your mood if you don't like the response.

My mood is already screwed up anyway.... -_-

I just want to know if she looks pretty only to me.....(then I'm going mad with love) or if she really is pretty... :)

[werty8763 1,483]

You know, this is pretty much how it went with me the last time. Don't overdo the researching, or you'll turn into a full-blown stalker. Big fail points if she finds out you're using the nets/her friends to spy on her. If you want to know more about her, conversations are the #1 time proven way to do it--shows confidence and warms up those nervous episodes over time.

 

P.S. Asking others if she's pretty or not is one guaranteed way to screw up your mood if you don't like the response.

Besides.... I know her and she knows me... and we talk to each other...... (but not very much) :(

I wish there was a way to start a good conversation...... any suggestions?

Thanks. :)

[Longcat970 119]

Try to get in some events/some sort of activity that differs from the normal routine; if there's an optional concert or the like, then it'd be best to get involved in it if she's already there (or invite). That way, there'd be atleast a few new things to discuss. You can try getting in a group of your peers to begin a conversation but in the end it all boils down to how you can carry onward from there with both of you.

If opportunities like that aren't really common enough, then it's best to be creative once in a while about your conversations. I remember back then when I used to see a girl from my school's orchestra, it took some effort to find a proper topic to converse about since I was a just wind player and she already had years and years of experience (hence the underdog). One day I just became reeeaaally curious and asked her how she started and ended up where she is now, and from there I worked my way to other topics.

Flow is important, try to ask some questions, give her some answers, then stop whenever it warrants. After all, nobody wants to feel forced to continue a conversation. Let your curiosity build up for another time. In the long run, patience is key, but don't hesitate to take chances. Think in music--better for a few notes to mess up than not play at all. Then of course, tempo, but that's a different subject for now.
 

[werty8763 1,483]

Try to get in some events/some sort of activity that differs from the normal routine; if there's an optional concert or the like, then it'd be best to get involved in it if she's already there (or invite). That way, there'd be atleast a few new things to discuss. You can try getting in a group of your peers to begin a conversation but in the end it all boils down to how you can carry onward from there with both of you.

If opportunities like that aren't really common enough, then it's best to be creative once in a while about your conversations. I remember back then when I used to see a girl from my school's orchestra, it took some effort to find a proper topic to converse about since I was a just wind player and she already had years and years of experience (hence the underdog). One day I just became reeeaaally curious and asked her how she started and ended up where she is now, and from there I worked my way to other topics.

Flow is important, try to ask some questions, give her some answers, then stop whenever it warrants. After all, nobody wants to feel forced to continue a conversation. Let your curiosity build up for another time. In the long run, patience is key, but don't hesitate to take chances. Think in music--better for a few notes to mess up than not play at all. Then of course, tempo, but that's a different subject for now.

 

Thanks for the advice....... :)

I'll try your suggestions..... :)

But unfortunately...... I don't have much time......

I leave for college in a little more than a year...... :(

But I shouldn't rush...... :(

What a predicament!! :(

What should I do?? :(

[Longcat970 119]

Sorry to hear that. Really, the best thing you can probably do right now is to gradually start talking to her more often. Make some memorable moments while there are opportunities to do so, because the biggest thing that will come to bite you in the end is regret over things not done. However, don't panic about the time! Crescendos in music don't sound good rushed, it needs buildup no matter what. Maybe if you make a good lasting impression on her, she will personally try to get in contact with you after you move. Hopefully, it all works out for you in the end. If it doesn't go exactly as you planned, well, it's called life.

In short, just be in the moment and enjoy her presence. Don't worry about how much time you have left, because you'll blink and it's already by your doorstep. Keep doing what you're doing, you'll get better at it over time just like playing an instrument.
 

[ayboub2 3]

Loool

[werty8763 1,483]

Sorry to hear that. Really, the best thing you can probably do right now is to gradually start talking to her more often. Make some memorable moments while there are opportunities to do so, because the biggest thing that will come to bite you in the end is regret over things not done. However, don't panic about the time! Crescendos in music don't sound good rushed, it needs buildup no matter what. Maybe if you make a good lasting impression on her, she will personally try to get in contact with you after you move. Hopefully, it all works out for you in the end. If it doesn't go exactly as you planned, well, it's called life.

In short, just be in the moment and enjoy her presence. Don't worry about how much time you have left, because you'll blink and it's already by your doorstep. Keep doing what you're doing, you'll get better at it over time just like playing an instrument.

 

OK. Thanks for the advice...... :)

[werty8763 1,483]

Just go up to her and give her a kiss and see if she says " Oh Werty" :wub: 

Or else slap you. :D

Nah just kidding. Go with Longcat970 advice.

Good luck Werty my man.

Lol..... Thanks man..... :)

[werty8763 1,483]

Hey BTW longcat, I have a performance on may 30...... (she's playing too :wub: ) should I do something then or just wait?

[werty8763 1,483]

^ As you said I'm not going to rush this.... ;)

I just hope it all works out in the end..... :)

[werty8763 1,483]

And in case you don't know we have practice once a week..... Fridays or Thursdays..... it depends.... but anyway..... the last two practices.... she sat next to me.... is that a good sign? :) I hope it is :wub:

[davidtanki_online 9]

Haha! Im just waiting for the day she finds this topic and realizes its all about her. No but seriously, want to know what would be good? If you can't bring yourself to confront her, leave her a letter with only the link to this forum topic in her clarinet case, girls love the suspense, trust me, i have 4 sisters (ik, its sad), she would think that was sweet, and you could let her find out who it was, that way she would have to ask you!

[werty8763 1,483]

Haha! Im just waiting for the day she finds this topic and realizes its all about her. No but seriously, want to know what would be good? If you can't bring yourself to confront her, leave her a letter with only the link to this forum topic in her clarinet case, girls love the suspense, trust me, i have 4 sisters (ik, its sad), she would think that was sweet, and you could let her find out who it was, that way she would have to ask you!

First.... she can't read English......

Second I know her email address so I'd rather send her an email.....

But I agree..... someday she must know that I loved her.... :)

[Forestad19 164]

Guys take a look.... https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=805773296173034&set=a.43925 .....and tell me if she's pretty or not..... ;)

i wouldnt give out her FB link out like that dude cuz thats personal but if u think shes pretty then shes pretty if u dont think shes pretty then u have to find someone else  ;)

Edited May 6, 2015 by Forestad19

[werty8763 1,483]

i wouldnt give out her FB link out like that dude cuz thats personal but if u think shes pretty then shes pretty if u dont think shes pretty then u have to find someone else  ;)

It's not he FB link.... it's only a link to her profile picture..... -_-

[werty8763 1,483]

i wouldnt give out her FB link out like that dude cuz thats personal but if u think shes pretty then shes pretty if u dont think shes pretty then u have to find someone else  ;)

And oc I think she's pretty..... in fact.... she IS pretty..... ;)

[VoldemortsNose 112]

secret luv is myself <4