secret LOVE ♥♥♥

[werty8763 1,483]

Hey guys..... :)

Today I practiced, and my secret love came..... :wub:

We sat across from each other, so we glanced at each other all the time we were practicing.....:blush:

And when the conductor made a mistake, she look at me, and we laughed together...... ^_^

I think she likes me..... :wub: :blush:

 

She also smiled at me a lot while we practiced..... :wub: :blush: :blush:

 

I think I'm getting there!! :D :wub: :blush:

[Agent101us 310]

Hey guys..... :)

Today I practiced, and my secret love came..... :wub:

We sat across from each other, so we glanced at each other all the time we were practicing.....:blush:

And when the conductor made a mistake, she look at me, and we laughed together...... ^_^

I think she likes me..... :wub: :blush:

 

She also smiled at me a lot while we practiced..... :wub: :blush: :blush:

 

I think I'm getting there!! :D :wub: :blush:

Invite her to meet at a restaurant or something. :)

build a relaltionship.

[Agent101us 310]

No, she isn't.... -_-

I'm absolutely sure she isn't..... -_-

He was talking to me! :)

[ImLagging_Sorry 3]

It Depends On The Lips..It Describes How Passionate Is The Kiss :D

[werty8763 1,483]

Invite her to meet at a restaurant or something. :)

build a relaltionship.

I am in the process of doing that.... ;)

[werty8763 1,483]

It Depends On The Lips..It Describes How Passionate Is The Kiss :D

What?? :huh:

[werty8763 1,483]

He was talking to me! :)

Ok....

[Agent101us 310]

I am in the process of doing that.... ;)

K cool, do it sooner, before she finds some other "beautiful" man.-_-

^^:)^^

[werty8763 1,483]

K cool, do it sooner, before she finds some other "beautiful" man.-_-

^^:)^^

Slow and steady wins the race..... ;)

[Agent101us 310]

Not this one, hurry. If she goes to work and finds someone, that's it.

[Agent101us 310]

srry

Edited October 17, 2015 by Agent101us

[werty8763 1,483]

Not this one, hurry. If she goes to work and finds someone, that's it.

Lol..... go to work?? Man, she just graduated from college..... :lol: Besides, she's not the type to flirt with anyone..... :)

[Agent101us 310]

Lol..... go to work?? Man, she just graduated from college..... :lol: Besides, she's not the type to flirt with anyone..... :)

Exacting, dosn't she have a job?

[blackflag444 256]

Slow and steady wins the race..... ;)

dude, just ask her out!

after making a good impression...

trust me, it works

[Agent101us 310]

dude, just ask her out!

after making a good impression...

trust me, it works

He's right

[werty8763 1,483]

dude, just ask her out!

after making a good impression...

trust me, it works

I'm in the process of making a good impression, for goodness sake's don't rush me!! -_-

[Raphael2 3,263]

I'm in the process of making a good impression, for goodness sake's don't rush me!! -_-

don't rush you?? you created this topic 7 months ago, I do think that's enough to make a good or a bad impression ;)

[werty8763 1,483]

don't rush you?? you created this topic 7 months ago, I do think that's enough to make a good or a bad impression ;)

Look, this is Korea..... and she's older than me...... -_-

This is waaayyyy more difficult than you think it is...... -_-

Don't think I'm dragging this on and on, I only have about one more year before I go to college..... and then I want be able to see her for a long time...... :(

So if I don't get her before I go, all this will be for nothing..... :(

 

I'm doing my best, so please don't rush me..... ;)

Edited October 18, 2015 by werty8763

[GoldRock 6,165]

Don't mean to be pessimistic, but it's probably a good idea to put your situation into context...

 

After 7 months, if she does indeed like you back then don't you think she'd be a bit fed up, frustrated or sad about the lack of much progress, just as you seem to be in some of your posts here?

 

Do you even talk to her? And no, I don't just mean like a surface-level chat every so often ('hi how are you'), but actual conversation on a regular basis as a good friend... Relationships can often start without such a connection being formed but usually that happens quickly, and the strongest and most enduring relationships tend to last because a couple can connect with each other as the closest of friends. Despite stigma surrounding being 'friendzoned', forming a friendship is really the best way to go to find if there's any basis for your initial crush. Heh.

 

If you haven't done the above, then I'm sorry to say that it's extremely likely that your feelings towards her aren't mutual in that way. I understand your situation is different to Western culture, but where love is concerned, it would generally be safe bet to conclude that two people who have feelings for one another wouldn't hang around to at least try to properly talk to one another. It's human nature not to want to wait if it's possible to do otherwise, regardless of the surrounding culture. So assuming no real conversation has happened between you two (correct me if I'm wrong), it's likely that your love is unrequited.

 

If I were you, I'd attempt to (finally) try and establish at least some sort of connection with her. And you shouldn't wait that much longer to at least do that (no pressure). But in the end, if you do end up gathering the courage to tell her your feelings for her and you get rejected, you definitely won't lose anything in the long-term - since your crush for her, without any proper logical grounding, really is just a crush.

Edited October 18, 2015 by GoldRock

[BlueDragon_tamki 3,204]

Nice wise advice

Don't mean to be pessimistic, but it's probably a good idea to put your situation into context...

 

After 7 months, if she does indeed like you back then don't you think she'd be a bit fed up, frustrated or sad about the lack of much progress, just as you seem to be in some of your posts here?

 

Do you even talk to her? And no, I don't just mean like a surface-level chat every so often ('hi how are you'), but actual conversation on a regular basis as a good friend... Relationships can often start without such a connection being formed but usually that happens quickly, and the strongest and most enduring relationships tend to last because a couple can connect with each other as the closest of friends. Despite stigma surrounding being 'friendzoned', forming a friendship is really the best way to go to find if there's any basis for your initial crush. Heh.

 

If you haven't done the above, then I'm sorry to say that it's extremely likely that your feelings towards her aren't mutual in that way. I understand your situation is different to Western culture, but where love is concerned, it would generally be safe bet to conclude that two people who have feelings for one another wouldn't hang around to at least try to properly talk to one another. It's human nature not to want to wait if it's possible to do otherwise, regardless of the surrounding culture. So assuming no real conversation has happened between you two (correct me if I'm wrong), it's likely that your love is unrequited.

 

If I were you, I'd attempt to (finally) try and establish at least some sort of connection with her. And you shouldn't wait that much longer to at least do that (no pressure). But in the end, if you do end up gathering the courage to tell her your feelings for her and you get rejected, you definitely won't lose anything in the long-term - since your crush for her, without any proper logical grounding, really is just a crush.

[werty8763 1,483]

Don't mean to be pessimistic, but it's probably a good idea to put your situation into context...

 

After 7 months, if she does indeed like you back then don't you think she'd be a bit fed up, frustrated or sad about the lack of much progress, just as you seem to be in some of your posts here?

 

Do you even talk to her? And no, I don't just mean like a surface-level chat every so often ('hi how are you'), but actual conversation on a regular basis as a good friend... Relationships can often start without such a connection being formed but usually that happens quickly, and the strongest and most enduring relationships tend to last because a couple can connect with each other as the closest of friends. Despite stigma surrounding being 'friendzoned', forming a friendship is really the best way to go to find if there's any basis for your initial crush. Heh.

 

If you haven't done the above, then I'm sorry to say that it's extremely likely that your feelings towards her aren't mutual in that way. I understand your situation is different to Western culture, but where love is concerned, it would generally be safe bet to conclude that two people who have feelings for one another wouldn't hang around to at least try to properly talk to one another. It's human nature not to want to wait if it's possible to do otherwise, regardless of the surrounding culture. So assuming no real conversation has happened between you two (correct me if I'm wrong), it's likely that your love is unrequited.

 

If I were you, I'd attempt to (finally) try and establish at least some sort of connection with her. And you shouldn't wait that much longer to at least do that (no pressure). But in the end, if you do end up gathering the courage to tell her your feelings for her and you get rejected, you definitely won't lose anything in the long-term - since your crush for her, without any proper logical grounding, really is just a crush.

OK. I get I it.... ;)

But see, the topic is "secret love"

I love her, but I'm not sure if she loves me or not...... :(

But I think she does..... :) :blush:

That's the whole point of this topic; to find out if she really loves me..... :)

[LOLKILLERTOTHEDEATH 1,921]

Pretend you're drunk, thn ask her "do you love me?"   if she says yes, fall to the floor and faint 

[BlueDragon_tamki 3,204]

XD

[Agent101us 310]

Pretend you're drunk, thn ask her "do you love me?" if she says yes, fall to the floor and faint

Umm, no

[blackflag444 256]

He's right

of course i'm right :P

 

I'm in the process of making a good impression, for goodness sake's don't rush me!! -_-

i've liked a girl for a few months... and we're friends... i just asked her out, and she said yes. and, i'm only in grade 7 =P

just ask her out