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Gambling is NOT a trait.

 

trait; a distinguishing quality (as of personal character). Curiosity is one of her notable traits; an inherited characteristic.

 

Compulsive gambling is a mental health disorder, NOT a human trait. Some of the negative human traits are: aggressive, rude, lazy, mean, nasty, vulgar, jealous, greedy, etc. But gambling, as well as the other mental disorders doesn't belong to a list of human traits.

 

People don't have to stay forever gamblers, i.e. to have a mental disorder called compulsive gambling. Because compulsive gambling, like many other mental disorders can be treated with psychosocial and pharmacological treatments. Moreover, successfully treated.

 

Please refrain yourself from making such comments. Thank you!

You misunderstood me. When I said trait, I didn't mean the compulsive disorder or something. Every person has some personality traits which can be used to determine their psychology. A person with a trait of gambling, for example, will always take huge risks in all spheres of life. Make the stakes bigger and such a person will always be attracted more and more to risk it all. He needn't be a gambler in literal sense at all but his personality will make it difficult for people around him.

As for the negative 'traits' you mentioned, they exist in all normal humans without exception. There's nothing special about them. The traits I mean are a sort of a personality thing. Just as another example, there are people who will switch sides as soon as the status quo changes. They won't remain loyal to any cause and will do what's best for their survival. Now, such people needn't be working in the military and be a spy for another country. They show that trait in all spheres of life. They'll switch jobs as soon as they sense something is wrong with their current employer. Then there are people on the other end of the spectrum who stay loyal till the end. Of course, they have their own set of problems as sometimes, it is best to leave it and move on.

So, you see, when I say 'traits', I mean the dominant characteristics which show on surface. They may be only slight or may be extreme, but they can be used to predict behaviour of that person.

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You misunderstood me. When I said trait, I didn't mean the compulsive disorder or something. Every person has some personality traits which can be used to determine their psychology. A person with a trait of gambling, for example, will always take huge risks in all spheres of life. Make the stakes bigger and such a person will always be attracted more and more to risk it all. He needn't be a gambler in literal sense at all but his personality will make it difficult for people around him.

As for the negative 'traits' you mentioned, they exist in all normal humans without exception. There's nothing special about them. The traits I mean are a sort of a personality thing. Just as another example, there are people who will switch sides as soon as the status quo changes. They won't remain loyal to any cause and will do what's best for their survival. Now, such people needn't be working in the military and be a spy for another country. They show that trait in all spheres of life. They'll switch jobs as soon as they sense something is wrong with their current employer. Then there are people on the other end of the spectrum who stay loyal till the end. Of course, they have their own set of problems as sometimes, it is best to leave it and move on.

So, you see, when I say 'traits', I mean the dominant characteristics which show on surface. They may be only slight or may be extreme, but they can be used to predict behaviour of that person.

 

No, you misunderstood me. My previous post was more aimed at this:

 

Deep inside, they will always remain a gambler no matter what.

When someone says something like this^, it can be concluded that you don't believe that people can overcome their mental disorders. According to you, people with some mental disorder couldn't be helped. Regardless of the successful methods of treatment. "Once a gambler always a gambler". That is really apsurb and at the very least inappropriate.

 

PS: I have noticed long time ago that you love writing walls of text. But also that you lecture people in an intrusive manner all over the Forum about anything and everything, no matter what the subject of the topic is. So, I'll tell you something like someone who is much older, more experienced and more educated than you: I think you're intelligent, I really do. But intelligence (what Mother Nature gave you) and smartness are not the same thing.

 

In the future, we can talk only formally, nothing off topic.

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No, you misunderstood me. My previous post was more aimed at this:

 

When someone says something like this^, it can be concluded that you don't believe that people can overcome their mental disorders. According to you, people with some mental disorder couldn't be helped. Regardless of the successful methods of treatment. "Once a gambler always a gambler". That is really apsurb and at the very least inappropriate.

 

When said gambler, I didn't mean gambler in literal sense as I made clear in my last post. Apologies for ambiguities and apologies to others for dragging this for rather long.
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Dark hair, taller than me, non smoker, has to love animals, has to be good with his hands (as in, good in fixing things).

Won't complain about a beard or blue eyes.

loolll r u boy ? as u said dnt complain about beard...  

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Please !

Respect this topic, people who are getting out of the topic shall stop that.

And also to the boys/men ... Please be kind and don't post here anything, like the women have requested.

 

 

Thank you !

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loolll r u boy ? as u said dnt complain about beard...  

sorry cooper is a girl i even know that her and i chat many a times

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actually sometimes beard makes men look great :D

if there taken care of right .. not sure if you have ever kissed a man with a beard .. if not well put it this way /  for me i always wonder where his beard has been, like did he eat before kissing me with smelly or sticky  foods  or even food with crumbs and there left in the beard or what about the beard hairs going up my nose .. yea you can tell i'm not a fan of them i would rather baby soft skin next to my face ...

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if there taken care of right .. not sure if you have ever kissed a man with a beard .. if not well put it this way /  for me i always wonder where his beard has been, like did he eat before kissing me with smelly or sticky  foods  or even food with crumbs and there left in the beard or what about the beard hairs going up my nose .. yea you can tell i'm not a fan of them i would rather baby soft skin next to my face ...

I won't kiss and tell ;) You're talking about big beards and I absolutely agree with you, they do put me off... you will never know what a man did that day or what he ate. I've seen videos online where silly men eat their dinner out of their 'bowl' beard (Ew!) However I won't mind guys with a short beard or a stubble... I love baby soft skin too.

 

What about moustaches? Anyone like that or do you think it looks silly? :huh:

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some men do suit them and others well stay with the baby soft skin it makes them look younger..

 

if there kept nice and clean ..,then sure there ok ,

 

but in general you have no idea what can be hiding in side ...them like a candy cane

 

also this is what i have to put up with 8 months of the year ..lol  and yea this is my blue eyed monster ,,.

 

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if there taken care of right .. not sure if you have ever kissed a man with a beard .. if not well put it this way /  for me i always wonder where his beard has been, like did he eat before kissing me with smelly or sticky  foods  or even food with crumbs and there left in the beard or what about the beard hairs going up my nose .. yea you can tell i'm not a fan of them i would rather baby soft skin next to my face ...

Well, if he dares to keep it then he has to take care of it as well.

 

It also depends on " Style " of that person, some might look messy but actually they have kept and cleaned it well. For example: artists, they intend to keep it or some want their appearance look attractive.

 

For the thing that you mentioned, it can happen too but if you are his girlfriend you have to tell him and I think he will take care of his beard as well as you  :)

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