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[Moraine 5,877]

You speak of crazy?! My lover's got humor, she's the giggle at a funeral. Now isn't that crazy? 

I don't think it's crazy, I also cannot express condolences with straight face. Some of us simply aren't able to deal with some situations the way others do.  

 

That was a Tanki wedding.. :D As far as I know not an actual marriage, but who knows.

 

Oh yeah, that could be it but somehow I remember them being together in real life - Who knows. Wouldn't be surprised. 

Yes, they were together IRL back then. Don't know if it's still the case, didn't keep in touch. In any case Tanki weddings were a thing for some time... 

[Chronicle 164]

I don't think it's crazy, I also cannot express condolences with straight face. Some of us simply aren't able to deal with some situations the way others do.  

But its the message you receive from someone's face or gesture at such circumstance. A smirk or a smile during a funeral might be mistaken to be disrespectful. Although I was being sarcastic I shouldn't have used a funeral as an example.

[Moraine 5,877]

Bursting into laughter while expressing condolences is also interpreted as disrespectful, since it's not a social norm. But both situations are actually more common than people think. 

[Chronicle 164]

I heard it was called a giggle loop, never witnessed it but I assume it would awkward. Especially if the person laughing is closely related to the deceased.

[Hancho 3,902]

I was out with this girl from my university and we did speak for a long time but we never ended up being together, we went our own separate ways and I did have feelings for her but it was quite opposite for her until the very last end she kept on messaging me how she wants me back. 

 

Nonetheless - We went out to eat back in February or March I believe and me as a person I do laugh a lot, even at really serious situations (depends if I am with my best mate) so, I had this nervous laughter and each time I done it, she kept on giving me an angry look, saying what is wrong with you. The psychology behind it is - People get insecure by somebody's nervous laughter, in case they have said something wrong but at the same time me as a person I tried to make the situation better somehow and meant nothing bad but the issue is, the way people react/look towards your laughter is the main problem. If they only understood or had same sense of humour, they would understand it. Me and her had different sense of humour, not far from it but some situations were definitely different, we saw the situation different ways. 

 

Now - Me and my best mate, we do laugh at serious situations, people usually end up saying "What is the matter with us, we are going to hell" - End of the day, all people do it. Having the very same sense of humour with your friend definitely what makes people laugh at serious matters. 

 

People will find it rude - Especially elder people who are fully grown up. 

[pringerfinger 934]

I don't think it's crazy, I also cannot express condolences with straight face. Some of us simply aren't able to deal with some situations the way others do.  

 

 

Yes, they were together IRL back then. Don't know if it's still the case, didn't keep in touch. In any case Tanki weddings were a thing for some time... 

 

 

Bursting into laughter while expressing condolences is also interpreted as disrespectful, since it's not a social norm. But both situations are actually more common than people think. 

I am the same way. Although I may not laugh at such circumstances but I might make a joke here and there. I just have a hard time expressing that side of me.

 

I heard it was called a giggle loop, never witnessed it but I assume it would awkward. Especially if the person laughing is closely related to the deceased.

Ahem.....Logan Paul....   x_x

 

Although he was not closely related to that guy what so ever. And tbh, people took that wayyy to far...like the dude made a mistake...just like everyone else. But hey, I am mentally harder than most people. So that vid never affected me like others....

 

I was out with this girl from my university and we did speak for a long time but we never ended up being together, we went our own separate ways and I did have feelings for her but it was quite opposite for her until the very last end she kept on messaging me how she wants me back. 

 

Nonetheless - We went out to eat back in February or March I believe and me as a person I do laugh a lot, even at really serious situations (depends if I am with my best mate) so, I had this nervous laughter and each time I done it, she kept on giving me an angry look, saying what is wrong with you. The psychology behind it is - People get insecure by somebody's nervous laughter, in case they have said something wrong but at the same time me as a person I tried to make the situation better somehow and meant nothing bad but the issue is, the way people react/look towards your laughter is the main problem. If they only understood or had same sense of humour, they would understand it. Me and her had different sense of humour, not far from it but some situations were definitely different, we saw the situation different ways. 

 

Now - Me and my best mate, we do laugh at serious situations, people usually end up saying "What is the matter with us, we are going to hell" - End of the day, all people do it. Having the very same sense of humour with your friend definitely what makes people laugh at serious matters. 

 

People will find it rude - Especially elder people who are fully grown up. 

Yeah, for the people like us we try to make the situation better, even though nothing can really make it better. Its just comforting to ourselves and most people won't get that. I try to keep quiet in those situations....but the awkwardness is just too much sometimes.

I liked MizAREE but she's gone with flipsquad 

 

 

they are married. 

 

 

Are they not married? I remember them from 2012 tho.

 

 

That was a Tanki wedding.. :D As far as I know not an actual marriage, but who knows.

 

 

Oh yeah, that could be it but somehow I remember them being together in real life - Who knows. Wouldn't be surprised. 

 

 

I don't think it's crazy, I also cannot express condolences with straight face. Some of us simply aren't able to deal with some situations the way others do.  

 

 

Yes, they were together IRL back then. Don't know if it's still the case, didn't keep in touch. In any case Tanki weddings were a thing for some time... 

I'm still lost....who are these people Dx

[Military_Structure 139]

Love: *Exist* 

Me: Is this A way to Broke your Heart?

[Moraine 5,877]

I'm still lost....who are these people Dx

They were chat mods once upon a time... 

[Hancho 3,902]

Ahem.....Logan Paul....   x_x

 

Although he was not closely related to that guy what so ever. And tbh, people took that wayyy to far...like the dude made a mistake...just like everyone else. But hey, I am mentally harder than most people. So that vid never affected me like others....

I'm sorry but how could that be a mistake? How can somebody be laughing at a dead person and be called that as a "mistake"? The kid definitely has issues or desperate for views/reaction on his pathetic YouTube channel. The video did have an affect on me, the whole time I was thinking if he was filming somebody I know in real life and he is just standing there with his camera, directly giggling with his fellow mates at the dead poor person. That is not a mistake, nobody would make such mistake. If you did not feel sorry for the person then...You have no feelings. 

 

I'm still lost....who are these people Dx

They were chat mods back in 2012/2013 I suppose. Always thought they were married in real life.

 

They were chat mods once upon a time... 

Surely they were something in real life.  :mellow:

[pringerfinger 934]

I'm sorry but how could that be a mistake? How can somebody be laughing at a dead person and be called that as a "mistake"? The kid definitely has issues or desperate for views/reaction on his pathetic YouTube channel. The video did have an affect on me, the whole time I was thinking if he was filming somebody I know in real life and he is just standing there with his camera, directly giggling with his fellow mates at the dead poor person. That is not a mistake, nobody would make such mistake. If you did not feel sorry for the person then...You have no feelings. 

 

Yes, they should have shut down the camera, yes, it was messed up. Let the kid learn from it. If everyone beat you down for everything wrong you've done, you wouldn't go anywhere with your life. I'm not being Biased because he is an American. That is my actual honest views.But like I have said, I'm harder than most people. I have seen some messed up things. I've been scared. This didn't effect me like it did many others.

 

You have to remember. Part of Love if forgiveness. Everyone needs to learn it.

 

(Just for the record I am not a supporter for Logan Paul.)

[GuidoFawkes 2,361]

i honestly can't stand girls.. everyone time after i start getting close to one she starts to irritate the hell out of me.

[GorgoBlesk 831]

i honestly can't stand girls.. everyone time after i start getting close to one she starts to irritate the hell out of me.

That is really sad. I hope you will find a nice girl who will not irritate you, she will make you happy xDDDDD

 

Do not take my post seriously xD

[Hancho 3,902]

Yes, they should have shut down the camera, yes, it was messed up. Let the kid learn from it. If everyone beat you down for everything wrong you've done, you wouldn't go anywhere with your life. I'm not being Biased because he is an American. That is my actual honest views.But like I have said, I'm harder than most people. I have seen some messed up things. I've been scared. This didn't effect me like it did many others.

 

You have to remember. Part of Love if forgiveness. Everyone needs to learn it.

 

(Just for the record I am not a supporter for Logan Paul.)

Question is - How clueless you have to be to know not to film a dead person, especially in the forest and laugh at them? How many missing brain cells you have to lose in order to do that kind of stuff? 

 

I honestly think your view based on the situation with the whole filming a dead person in the forest is so wrong. Yes, we can forgive him but we can't forget the fact he done such thing, laugh at the dead person? That isn't showing love nor showing respect. 

 

After the video - He also done something else which he removed it as well, how can you forgive people like this, it's obvious he is desperate for views because it's where his $$ coming from. We all have seen scary things but we still have respect and brain cells not to do such thing, what is the matter with you? 

 

No, you have to remember people take your forgiveness for granted - You basically let them off feeling guilty, they don't feel being guilty anymore and forget for what they have done, that is why sometimes you can't forgive people, you just move on and stop talking to them. 

 

 

i honestly can't stand girls.. everyone time after i start getting close to one she starts to irritate the hell out of me.

What exactly is your type? Do you have a type? Do you like loud/shy girls? I feel you're being harsh on yourself and don't allow the girl properly to open up herself or feel comfortable. 

 

Myself - I dislike loud girls who also act prestige, that is so unattractive. 

[Rains_of_Castamere 384]

Frozen yogurt is luv

[Chronicle 164]

Frozen yogurt is luv

Agreed 

[Total_SkiIl 1,983]

this topic is great entertainment

[Hancho 3,902]

 

 

 

 

[pringerfinger 934]

Question is - How clueless you have to be to know not to film a dead person, especially in the forest and laugh at them? How many missing brain cells you have to lose in order to do that kind of stuff? 

 

-Understood.

 

I honestly think your view based on the situation with the whole filming a dead person in the forest is so wrong. Yes, we can forgive him but we can't forget the fact he done such thing, laugh at the dead person? That isn't showing love nor showing respect. 

 

Here's the the thing. You can forgive a man, but never trust him again. You can forgive a man, but never respect. You can forgive a man, but never forget. There are things that deserve the death penalty. This is not one of them. What he did is forgivable, but you don't have to respect, forget, or trust again.

 

After the video - He also done something else which he removed it as well, how can you forgive people like this, it's obvious he is desperate for views because it's where his $$ coming from. We all have seen scary things but we still have respect and brain cells not to do such thing, what is the matter with you? 

 

The rat thing? yeah that was animal cruelty. 

Whats wrong with me? Nothing. I never said I saw scary things...I said I have seen and experienced some disgusting messed up things. Things I would have rather not seen or experienced. NOT going to mention them.

 

No, you have to remember people take your forgiveness for granted - You basically let them off feeling guilty, they don't feel being guilty anymore and forget for what they have done, that is why sometimes you can't forgive people, you just move on and stop talking to them. 

 

Forgive, and watch their actions. If they have not sincerely changed, it will show up again. There is a point where I cut people off.

 

 

Listen, I don't support Logan in any way. I am actually done with this whole controversy thing. It was like 6 months ago. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. I am willing to give the guy a 2nd chance. Others want him dead. 

No, this does not mean I watch him, follow him, or stand for any of his views. I am just no longer holding him to what he did. He has said he made a change. Now lets see. 

My feelings/support for Logan are Neutral. I am neither for him nor against him. Logan Paul is just Logan Paul.

 

 

[Hancho 3,902]

 

 

Here's the the thing. You can forgive a man, but never trust him again. You can forgive a man, but never respect. You can forgive a man, but never forget. There are things that deserve the death penalty. This is not one of them. What he did is forgivable, but you don't have to respect, forget, or trust again.

 

Exactly - You don't have to respect nor trust him ever again. Surely they get satisfaction after forgiveness. Makes me think why I should even forgive him when I can just ignore him. I only forgive the people I know who done me wrong but I would never speak to them ever again.

 

 

 

The rat thing? yeah that was animal cruelty. Whats wrong with me? Nothing. I never said I saw scary things...I said I have seen and experienced some disgusting messed up things. Things I would have rather not seen or experienced. NOT going to mention them.

 

That is understandable - Since you have seen and experienced scary things in your life - The whole dead person in the forest situation, it did not scare you? Not sure how I would react seeing a dead person right next to me, probably be in a massive shock but hey...Logan was having a giggle over there. That is probably more disturbing than somebody abusing another person. 

 

 

 

Listen, I don't support Logan in any way. I am actually done with this whole controversy thing. It was like 6 months ago. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. I am willing to give the guy a 2nd chance. Others want him dead. No, this does not mean I watch him, follow him, or stand for any of his views. I am just no longer holding him to what he did. He has said he made a change. Now lets see. My feelings/support for Logan are Neutral. I am neither for him nor against him. Logan Paul is just Logan Paul.

 

Nobody accused you of you watching his YouTube channel or if you are a massive fan of him. This current conversation is not about being a fan, it is about using psychology towards a really messed up situation and I wanted to see somebody's reaction and I did get one from you which I also did not expect this kind of reaction. 

 

After what he did in the forest yet he also done another disturbing thing - What did he take for granted from his fans? The apology that he sincerely did on the video. A lot of people forgave him and he took that for granted? Was I not right that people can take these kind things for granted? I was. 

[GuidoFawkes 2,361]

What exactly is your type? Do you have a type? Do you like loud/shy girls? I feel you're being harsh on yourself and don't allow the girl properly to open up herself or feel comfortable. 

 

Myself - I dislike loud girls who also act prestige, that is so unattractive. 

i don't think i have a type..

 

although i definately also dislike those who are too loud for no reason.

[Zak 2,532]

The topic is dead?  :mellow:

[GorgoBlesk 831]

The topic is dead? :mellow:

It is not dead, it still lives in our hearts.

[Zak 2,532]

It is not dead, it still lives in our hearts.

What a big heart you have!  :wub:

[Hancho 3,902]

The topic is dead?  :mellow:

It is dead - Just like dead Love. 

 

 

I've been asking this myself. It's weird how once people break-up and tend to go their own ways - Yet one of them is able to find love within 3-5 months, just move on that easily from the previous love? 

[Bydo 20,119]

I've been asking this myself. It's weird how once people break-up and tend to go their own ways - Yet one of them is able to find love within 3-5 months, just move on that easily from the previous love? 

I guess for some Love is just not real .but in other cases true love will hurt for a long time. the memories will always be there but they wont be.

 

its like breaking up with your BFF or a friend that you get along with so well and you enjoy the same things. but when someone accuses you or hurts you then you end it on a sad note. your feelings will be still there but not as strong as they were when you were together. the memories of say going to a tanki battle or the listening to the same music or even having a special food you both enjoyed. those memories will linger for a wial . but feelings will fade as time goes on and you learn to enjoy another persons company.the only thing that might not go away for some is how they hurt you . such as cheated with another person or accused you of doing something which you never did . those will always be on the back of your mind wondering why and why they could not explain why they said or did it . 

Edited October 15, 2018 by Bydo