im lonely

[Venerable 2,971]

On 10/14/2019 at 7:31 PM, Vegas said:

all what you need is GF man trust me :)

Giant Frogs are tough to find...

[Blutaar 1,904]

On 10/14/2019 at 4:01 PM, Vegas said:

 

If you cannot find happiness within yourself, you will not find happiness in a relation either

[Person_Random 4,991]

11 minutes ago, BloodPressure said:

If you cannot find happiness within yourself, you will not find happiness in a relation either

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Learned this the hard way.

[Blutaar 1,904]

@Person_Random  I'm sorry to hear that. Are you doing ok?

Edited November 22, 2020 by BloodPressure
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[E_polypterus 2,374]

Buy a pet!

[Person_Random 4,991]

All these are some wonderful suggestions; thanks for the support 

Right now, I am busying myself with Tanki and real-life work, so it's not as bad as it used to be (*cough* studying for exam *cough*). It does suck that I can't talk to any friends, but it is what it is.

[alkyng 3,080]

It's named "Social Intelligence", every time you go further from your community customs your life will be harder.. the clever one is who know what to do and didn't go further with nervous acts, or something is unusual for the community.

And for sure I prefer my parents to be a less care about philosophical things and far away from this... your mother father grandma grandpa, for sure didn't have internet from their first life, I don't want a cultured parents that knows everything from internet how to raise me (as this will make me a "foolish"), so for sure if you ask your parents about those things they wouldn't care, as a parents in 25th old.

I don't know where you life, (except some of you), but I think what I said is applied on everywhere you're... in examples, for sure your parents won't give a a care about (vegans) and a lot, (my apologies if someone of them is here as I just said it in example not as an offensive thing(like if I said your  parents won't give a care about "tanki").

On 9/12/2019 at 8:34 PM, Person_Random said:

see i tried to talk to my parents but they just went like "your xxx relative xxx got depressed and then they lost their job and xxx xxx some other things like that and i dont want that to happen to you"

lol, don't expect your parents to be a psychologists.. or more diplomacy, for sure asking them such kind of questions would like to gave you a horrible answer!, but couldn't resist my mother advices and I consider myself always as a foolish, and asking her for everything (waiting for horrible answers)... but for sure your parents have more tests than you in the real life, though you know more than them in young cares.

Edited November 22, 2020 by asem.harbi

[Iron_Man 2,376]

Well @Person_Random, loneliness is not something which can hinder you from being happy. As said by  @BloodPressure, happiness is not something which can be found in relations and things. It can only be found within you. Well, I was (actually am) in the same position as you are, exactly the same. Well I did not ask my parents for suggestions neither did they bother about how I was. But then I found happiness in making stuff and fixing stuff.

But that was when I found what I was truly capable of. What you are capable of, is so huge that you might not have the capacity to even imagine that(that's true cause I could never imagine that I could make 8KW laser in home). Well, if you wish you could get a girlfriend for yourself, but believe me you can never find happiness in relations. Why make a relation to find happiness when it is right inside you!

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Well, this is a secret between just you and me, do you know why I add "Born for this" lyrics at end of my AWS articles(well only two as of now, but yes there will be more!). Well, it sure gives some motivation, but the main reason behind it is that it was and is the favourite song of my pal. We used to spend hours listening to the song and doing math. We are now far apart and the song is the only thing which I have of him! Well must say it was a boon in disguise, now due to it, I realized what I was born for. So this does not mean that I do not miss my friend, I do miss him. So instead of wasting my time thinking of what has happened, I can use the time for some fruitful purposes. When things are inevitable, you got to be Iron Man!

You are doing a lot for the TO community, Be Happy!

Edited November 23, 2020 by Ironmantonystark

[dupuy 318]

Just curious, but are you in college now? I know I just wrapped up the ACT and got the score I was shooting for. Will likely be in college come early summer if Covid lets up enough. I know all about isolation and being bored since that's pretty much been my life for the past months. However, I have found things to occupy myself like writing, schoolwork, etc. . . 

Edited November 24, 2020 by dupuy

[Person_Random 4,991]

15 minutes ago, dupuy said:

 

Not yet, but soon. Wonder what the experience will be like

And thanks all for the advice and support; I will try to implement some suggestions in my life. I think it's not easy, especially in this time, so I'm glad everyone can come together and bring such positivity. It's nice to see some wholesome forum posts and true kindness instead of toxicity and accusations, and I just want to let you all know how I appreciate that. Thanks!

[DieselPlatinum 5,121]

On 9/11/2019 at 10:43 AM, Person_Random said:

Hey everyone,

 

My friend in real life is far too busy for me, and I need to find something to do to fill up that time that we used to spend together in the summer.  Ideas?  Is there something that I can do besides making surveys?  Oh, and maybe some music suggestions, if you can.  I'm listening to "N Y L A" by blackbear, "listen before i go" by Billie Eilish, and "Never Not" by Lauv.  Any other sad songs I can marathon to?

 

Or am I being a mope, like my parents keep saying?  Whenever I feel sad they just talk about my relatives who got depression and tell me not to be like them.  Am I really like this?

 

Anyways, if you're reading this, can you do this survey?

Hi lonely. I'm Diesel.

[artc 1,119]

I just thought these songs went good with the topic. u gata celebrate thxgiving today 2 for the 2nd song XD

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